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If you are suspicious that your husband may be cheating on you, let him make as many mistakes as possible as these are all ammunition for you. Do not confront him until you have sufficient evidence to prove your suspicions. You'll find below some of the most important signs that your partner is cheating on you. 1. 90% of cheaters will do so in our own bed at some time during your relationship. If you suspect your husband has been cheating on you in your own home, try making your bed in a particular way, check it every day, if you're husband has been using it with somebody else, you will know as he will have made differently. 2. Trap him. You should use one of your female friends that you husband does not know to help you with this. Ask your friend to hit on your husband either in a bar or at a party, and have her record the conversation. The best way I found to do this is to have your friend call your answering service as she is talking to your husband. This way you will have solid proof that your husband is cheating. 3. Your husband will definitely take advantage if he is left alone for a weekend. So to set another trap tell him that you will be away all weekend, give him precise times for when you are leaving and when you will be back. Then say goodbye and find a good spot where you'll be able to watch your house, all you have to do now is wait and see. 4. Pay attention to all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check the credit card statements, bank withdrawals, and receipts, make sure you check for any unusual transactions. These can be obvious such as motel room receipts or gift shops from which you have never received a gift. However, he may be more cunning than this, so check all cash withdrawals, your husband may pay for things with cash to avoid leaving receipts that you might find. If he is withdrawing sums of money at the same time each week or month, then there is a chance he is using it to pay for a room with his other lover. 5. Check all phone records, both the home phone, and his cellphone. Make a note of any unusual for members, numbers that are repeatedly use, or a number is that are called at strange times of the day. Also keep a close eye on how your husband uses his cellphone, does he always move out of earshot before answering it? If you feel the need to confront your husband but do not have concrete evidence, try bluffing him. You could try saying something like, I know you've been cheating on me and I'll give you one chance to confess. He may break down and confess everything, but he is just as likely to continue lying. I can assure you that your husband will screw up sooner or later you will need to be patient, but remain watchful. An easy way to do this is to hire a PI, however this can be expensive and may not be necessary. My advice is that you follow the above steps, keep a watchful eye for any of these signs, and keep notes of any evidence.
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Pauline Stradlen works as a Private Investigator and runs a website for people who think they might be in a cheating relationship. To track your partners phone records visit www.answersabc.com
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