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Well, we have all seen that myth - that "nice guys" fail and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is always true.

At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.

I think there are other personality dimensions involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.

Bad boys are often less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy hook and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have any idea as to whether I am interested in them or just being polite.

That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I am interested in them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.

Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find boys who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an entertaining conversation with them without mentioning a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both attractive and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also do not forget that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how beautiful she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well choose a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but rough and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to expand how you would meet people like that. So irrespective of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and special to the women you come across and you will be victorious.

One of the hardest things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are unexciting there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the celebration.

The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just believe in yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will notice that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will see a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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