Think You're Hesitant To Approach Or Meet Up With Women?


There is an easy thing that men could do to raise their confront on approaching women and meeting women.

Whenever you feel awkward in any situation, it means that you are approaching this scenario on too high a gradient. Instead of trying to escape from the scenario, reduce the gradient.

What are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. By trying to go to the top of the ladder on your initial step, it's going to be difficult to accomplish, and you may not succeed. If you keep trying it over and over you will begin to build up a complex about failing, and soon not make an effort any longer.

By trying to skip up five or six steps in your first try, it will also be terrifying -- not necessarily impossible but frightening. And the possibility is that if you have no experience leaping that high you will not be successful .

The proper approach is to take the first step and then move forward one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable approach to climb a step ladder.

While I was a young guy I would notice a woman I was attracted to and believed I had to tell her how much I liked her right away. Well that was leaping up way too many steps on the ladder. I knew nothing about her.

The initial step is a simple "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get confident just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as step two when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, respond to the question, or comment on something which she has her interest on to continue the conversation. For example, if you are in a bookstore and she is taking a look at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?

Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get acquainted with her prior to deciding that you like her.

Obviously, there is a whole lot more to it, however these are excellent basics to start with. If you use gradients ultimately you will learn how to meet women.

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